We have two sets $A$ and $B$ and some object $x$. Let’s introduce two propositional variables:
$a$, which states that $x \in A$, and
$b$, which states that $x \in B$.
I get as far as $(a \lor b) \land \lnot(a \land b)$. But the questions asks for a solution that the total number of connectives used is just two. I have used 4: $\lor$, $\land$, $\lnot$ and another $\land$. How can I reduce even further?
Connected to this question: What does the connection between 𝐴△𝐵△C and A <=> B <=> C?
The symmetric difference $\triangle$ has essentially the logical meaning of the "exclusive or".
More precisely, $x \in A \triangle B$ means that \begin{align}\tag{1} (x \in A) \, \leftrightarrow \, \lnot (x \in B) \end{align} which is a statement with exactly two logical connectives, $\leftrightarrow$ and $\lnot$.
Indeed, according to the semantics of the biconditional $\leftrightarrow$, $(1)$ is true if and only if either $x \in A$ and $x \notin B$, or $x \notin A$ and $x \in B$, as required by the definition of $x \in A \triangle B$.