we can say 4 is the number you get when you add 1 to itself 4 times. Likewise, 5 is the number we get when we add 1 to itself 5 times. Now, let's just say 4 = 5. It would have to be the case that 4-5 = 0, however, that would imply 1 = 0. Unfortunately, one of the rules for a ring is that you cannot have 1 = 0, therefore 4 cannot equal 5 in any ring with unity. but I found a calculation.
Relevant snippet
\begin{eqnarray} 2+2&=&4+\frac{9}{2}-\frac{9}{2}\\&=&\sqrt{(4-\frac{9}{2})^2}+\frac{9}{2}\\&=&\sqrt{16-36+(\frac{9}{2})^2}+\frac{9}{2}\\&=&\sqrt{-20+(\frac{9}{2})^2}+\frac{9}{2}\\&=&\sqrt{25-45+(\frac{9}{2})^2}+\frac{9}{2}\\&=&\sqrt{(5-\frac{9}{2})^2}+\frac{9}{2}\\&=&5-\frac{9}{2}+\frac{9}{2}\\&=&5 \end{eqnarray}
Yes, I know that this is not possible but the way it is solved seems pretty much correct to me. That makes me curious that is it somehow possible anyway ?
Hint: you can square two different real numbers to get the same positive real number. Also, they have the same absolute value.