$$ A= \begin{bmatrix} 3 &-2 &4\\ 1 &0 &2\\ -1 &1 &-1 \end{bmatrix} $$
There must be something fundamental about matrices that I don't understand. How can I solve a matrix equation without an invertible matrix? How can a constant $\lambda$ equal a matrix?
$$ LHS=\begin{bmatrix} 3 &-2 &4\\ 1 &0 &2\\ -1 &1 &-1 \end{bmatrix}\cdot \begin{bmatrix} x_1\\ x_2\\ x_3 \end{bmatrix}= \begin{bmatrix} 3x_1-2x_2+4x_3\\ x_1+2x_3\\ -x_1+x_2-x_3 \end{bmatrix} $$ $$ \\\ RHS=\lambda\cdot\begin{bmatrix} x_1\\ x_2\\ x_3 \end{bmatrix} = \begin{bmatrix} \lambda x_1\\ \lambda x_2\\ \lambda x_3 \end{bmatrix} $$
No constant can ever make these two sides equal for all $x_1,x_2,x_3$.
And let's say we try to solve it algebraically:
$$ AX=\lambda X \Longleftrightarrow AX-\lambda X=\textbf{0} \Longleftrightarrow (A-\lambda)X=\textbf{0} $$
the $(A-\lambda)$ doesn't make sense as you can't subtract scalars from matrices.
What is going on here?
Note that $$AX=\lambda X \Longleftrightarrow AX-\lambda X=\textbf{0} \Longleftrightarrow (A-\lambda I)X=\textbf{0}$$
where $A-\lambda I$ is a matrix which makes your computation make sense.
The formal way to find the eigenvalue $\lambda$ is to solve the characteristic polynomial, $$P(\lambda) = \det (A-\lambda I)=0$$
for $\lambda$ and find the eigenvectors afterwards.