so i start with a circle with radius $r$, and make another one with radius $r+dr$, and the area between them is $(2\times \pi \times r)\times dr$ because that area is a rectangle, and that's where my problem is... if you make a circle with radius r and another of radius $r+dr$, then the shape would be of a trapezium rather than a rectangle!
making the math, that would get a pretty bizarre result:
$dA=dr(2\times\pi\times r+2\times \pi\times r+2\times \pi\times dr)/2 $(area of the trapezium)
$dA=(2\times \pi\times r)dr + (\pi\times dr)dr$
integral (1) $dA=\int(2\times \pi\times r)dr + \int(\pi\times dr)dr$
the second term on the right shouldn't exist, so where am i wrong?
The area between then should be:
$$\pi(r+\Delta r)^2 - \pi r^2 = \pi (\Delta r)^2 + 2 \pi r \Delta r.$$
The integral for this area is:
$$\int_{r'=r}^{r + \Delta r} \int_{\theta ' = 0}^{2\pi} r' dr' d \theta '. $$