On Facebook, I can see which friends have birthdays today. Sometimes there are 1, sometimes more than 1, and sometimes zero friends. What's the average number of birthdays today? To formalize:
Problem statement
I have $n$ friends. Each of their birthdays are equally likely to occur on any day. Let $X$ be the number of friends with birthdays today. Ignore leap years.
Clearly, $0 \leq X \leq n$, with the mean being $n/365$.
What does the probability mass function of $X$ look like? Is this is a Poisson distribution? If yes, what is $\lambda$? If no, how do I describe the distribution?
Under these specifics, i.e. that there are $n$ independent variables $Y_j$ uniformly distributed on $\{1,\cdots,365\}$ and, for some predetermined $m$, you are considering $X=\#\{j\,:\, Y_j=m\}$, then the pdf of $X$ is $p_X(k)=\binom nk 365^{-k}(1-365^{-1})^{n-k}$, i.e. $X\sim\operatorname{Binom}(n,365^{-1})$. If we decide to make the dependence of $X$ on $m$ explicit, we obtain that all the $X_m$-s are identically distributed, but clearly not independent.