The Bregman divergence of a convex function $f:\mathbb{R}^n\to\mathbb{R}$ at the point $x$ with respect to the point $y$ is defined as $$D_f(x,y) = f(x) - (f(y) + \langle \nabla f(y),x-y\rangle)$$ I'm starting to feel that $D_f(x,y)=D_f(y,x)$ for all $x,y$ iff $f$ is a quadratic. Is that true? Any answers would hopefully provide insights to why this is true.
Edit: Maybe it wasn't clear - I'm interested in a proof of the hard direction of the above assertion, i.e. that if the divergence is symmetric, $f$ must be a quadratic, and I'd very much like to see an intuitive, motivated proof.
If $f$ is quadratic, then $D_f(x,y)$ is just the difference between $f(x)$ and the Taylor expansion of first order of $f$ at $y$. Since $f$ is quadratic, the remainer term is easily seen to be $\frac 12 (x-y)^TQ(x-y)$, where $Q=\nabla^2 f$.
Assume now that $D_f(x,y)=D(y,x)$. Then by differentiating this equation with respect to $x$, it follows $$ f'(x) - f'(y) = -f''(x)(y-x) = f''(x)(x-y). $$ Hence $f'$ is affine linear, and $f$ is quadratic. Doing this the finite difference way, the proof also shows that $f$ is twice differentiable everywhere. So twice differentiability is not an assumption but an implication of symmetry.
I got this idea from Lemma 3.16 in this paper Joint and Separate Convexity of the Bregman Distance. Bauschke, Heinz H. and Borwein, Jonathan M. (2001) Studies in Computational Mathematics, 8 . pp. 23-36.