There are twenty individuals numbered $1,2,...,20$.Each individual chooses 10 others from this group in a random fashion,independently of the choices of the others, and makes one phone call to each of the $10$. Let $X$ be the number of calls handled(incoming as well as outgoing) by Individual 1.Let $Y$ be the number of calls between Individual 1 and 2. Find $E(X|Y=1)$.
My approach:
See that, $X=10+Y_1$ where $Y_1:$ number of phone calls incoming to $1$. Thus, $E(X)=10+E(Y_1)$. See that $Y_1 \sim Bin(19,\frac{1}{19})$. Thus, $E(X)=10+\frac{19}{19}=11$. Also, $Y= \left\{ \begin{array}{ll} 0 \ \text{with probability} \frac{100}{361} \\ 1 \ \text{with probability} \frac{180}{361} \\ 2 \ \text{with probability} \frac{81}{361} \\ \end{array} \right. $
Now,given $Y=1$, One case can be that individual 1 has 2 on his caller list but 2 does not call him. And the other is that individual 1 does not call 2 but 2 calls 1. Let $X_3,X_4+1$ be the number of calls received by $1$ in the two situations respectively. So,$E(X|Y=1)=\frac{[E(10+X_3)]\frac{90}{361}+[10+1+E(X_4)]\frac{90}{361}}{\frac{180}{361}}$ Now, here $X_3 \sim Bin(18,\frac{1}{18})$ and $X_4 \sim Bin(18,\frac{1}{18})$. So, we plug in the expectations to get a value.
But is this approach correct? Anyone having a better idea to calculate the conditional expectation?
I think the following argument works and computes the expectation more easily:
Let $X'$ be the number of calls handled by individual $2$. By symmetry, $E(X|Y=1)=E(X'|Y=1)$, and by linearity of expectation, $E(X+X'|Y=1)=2E(X|Y=1)$, so we can answer the question by solving a simpler problem: What is the expected number of calls involving either individual $1$ or individual $2$, given that there was exactly one call between them?
Aside from the known call between them, all other calls handled by $1$ or $2$ were placed by one of the other $18$ individuals. For one of these other individuals, say individual $x$, the expected number of calls to $1$ is $10/19$ and the expected number of calls to $2$ is also $10/19$, because their calls are independent of the known condition, which doesn't involve them.
Therefore the number of calls involving either $1$ or $2$ is $1+18(2\cdot{10\over19})$, and the desired expected value is half that, or ${1\over2}\cdot\left(1+18(2\cdot{10\over19})\right)$.