I wonder if someone can help me with this question:
"Let $X,Y \sim \mathcal{N}(0,1)$ where X and Y are independent. Find $E[X | X>Y]$."
I know that $E[X|Y=y]= \int_{-\infty}^{\infty} x f_{X|Y}(x,y)dx$, but in this case one is conditioning on an inequality, and I don't know how to treat that. Thanks in advance!
You can calculate the appropriate conditional density directly
$$f_{X\mid X>Y}(x)=\frac{dF_{X\mid X>Y}(x)}{d x}=$$ $$=\lim_{\Delta x\to 0}\frac{F_{X\mid X>Y}(x+\Delta x)-F_{X\mid X>Y}(x)}{\Delta x}=\lim_{\Delta x\to 0}\frac{P(X<x+\Delta x\mid X>Y)-P(X<x\mid X>Y)}{\Delta x}=$$ $$=\lim_{\Delta x\to 0}\frac{P(x<X<x+\Delta x\mid X>Y)}{\Delta x}=$$ $$=\frac1{P(X>Y)}\lim_{\Delta x\to 0}\frac{P(x<X<x+\Delta x\cap X>Y)}{\Delta x}.$$
Now,
$$P(x<X<x+\Delta x\cap X>Y)=\int_{x}^{x+\Delta x}P(u>Y)\ f_X(u)\ du$$ $$=\int_{x}^{x+\Delta x}F_Y(u)\ f_X(u)\ du.$$
Then
$$\lim_{\Delta x\to 0}\frac{\int_{x}^{x+\Delta x}F_Y(u)\ f_X(u)\ du}{\Delta x}=$$ $$=\frac {d}{dx}\int_{-\infty}^x F_Y(u)\ f_X(u)\ du =f_X(x)F_Y(x).$$
That is, $$f_{X\mid X>Y}(x)=\frac{f_X(x)F_Y(x)}{P(X>Y)}=\frac{f_X(x)F_X(x)}{P(X>Y)}$$
because the two random variables has a common distribution.
Then, the conditional expectation is
$$E[X\mid X>Y]=2\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}xf_X(x)F_X(x)\ dx$$
because $P(X>Y)=\frac12$ .
So, $$E[X\mid X>Y]=2\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}xf_X(x)F_Y(x)\ dx=\frac1{\pi}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}xe^{-\frac{x^2}2}\int_{-\infty}^xe^{-\frac{u^2}2} \ du\ dx.$$