I am taking vector calculus and I have been introduced to the following definition:
Let $A\subset \mathbb{R}^n$ and $f:A\to \mathbb{R}$. We say that $f$ is differentiable at a point $\boldsymbol{x}\in A$ if there is a linear map $T:\mathbb{R}^n\to \mathbb{R}$ such that: $$\lim_{\boldsymbol{h}\to 0}\frac{|f(\boldsymbol{x}+\boldsymbol{h})-f(\boldsymbol{x})-T(\boldsymbol{h})|}{\|\boldsymbol{h}\|}=0$$ This definition makes sense to me, but I have not been able to find anywhere how to prove that this is well-defined meaning that the linear map $T$ is unique. Proof by contradiction seems logical but how can I prove this?
It $T$ and $S$ both satisfy this property then $\frac {\|Th-Sh\| } {\|h\|} \to 0$. Fix any non-zero vector $u$ and take $h=cu$ where $c$ is a scalar to see that $Tu=Su$. Since $T$ and $S$ are linear maps and $Tu=Su$ for non-zero vectors $u$ (and trivially for $u=0$) so $T=S$.