What is a valid definition of Tail-index of a probability distribution?
I understand that it is something to do with the rate of convergence of the density function $f(x)$ $($to $0)$ as $x \to \infty$. I tried searching google and I do find a lot of articles/papers on the topic but nowhere I can find a specific definition of the term.
Any help would be much appreciated! Thanks.
I have found a defintion at http://freakonometrics.hypotheses.org/2338, although again it is not presented as a primary definition of "tail index" but rather as an adjunct to the discussion of what they call heavy-tailed distributions. So I have had to fill in some parts to add a bit of rigor, and other people should check these parts.
The parts obtained from the freakonometrics article are in the shaded areas.
Although the freakomomics article calls this a heavy-tailed distribution, in Wikipedia and elsewhere this is called a fat-tailed distribution. The definition of a "slowly varying function" is that for all $a>0$ $$ \lim_{x\to\infty}\frac{\mathcal{L}(ax)}{\mathcal{L}(x)}=1 $$ Thus we can restate the condition as $\overline{F}(x) \sim x^{-1/\xi}$ for some $\xi>0$, where $\sim$ denotes asymptotic equivalence.
The definition of a heavy-tailed distribution given in https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heavy-tailed_distribution is that $P(X)$ is a heavy-tailed distribution if for all $\lambda > 0$, $$ \lim_{x\to\infty}e^{\lambda x}\overline{F}(x) = \infty $$ All fat-tailed distributions are heavy-tailed in this sense, but not vice-versa.
Added example in response to comments
For example, consider the probability distribution function $$f(x)=\left\{\matrix{0&x<1\\\frac{e^{1-\sqrt{x}}}{2\sqrt{x}}&x\geq 1}\right. \\\overline{F}(x)= e^{1-\sqrt{x}}\mbox{ for } x\geq 1 $$ For any positive $\lambda$ $$\lim_{x\to\infty}e^{\lambda x}\overline{F}(x) = \infty$$ so the distribution is heavy-tailed. But for any positive $\xi$, $$ \lim_{x\to\infty}x^{1/\xi}\overline{F}(x) = 0 $$ which implies that the distribution is not fat-tailed
Somebody should add this definition to the Wikipedia page on heavy-tailed distributions, just above the section on Pickand's estimator of the tail index. However, I think the Freakonometrics reference is inadequate, both because it is not primarily intended as a definition of the term, and because the confusion about heavy-tailed and fat-tailed reduces confidence in using that as a reference.