A partial order $≤$ on a set $P$ must satisfy the following properties:
Reflexivity: For all $a \in P$, $a ≤ a$
Anti-symmetry: For all $a,b \in P$, $a ≤ b \land b ≤ a → a = b$
Transitivity: For all $a,b,c \in P$, $a ≤ b \land b ≤ c → a ≤ c$
But regarding the anti-symmtery, what equivalence relation does $=$ mean? Does it have to be the finest equivalence relation on $P$, or can it be coarser? Say, if $P$ is the set of triangles on the Euclidean plane $\mathbb{R}^2$:
Usually, $=$ denotes the equality of the area of the triangles.
There is also $≡$, which denotes the congruence of the triangles. This is also an equivalence relation.
On the extreme, triangles could be considered equivalent only if the have exact same set of coordinates of vertices.
It is practical to define order over the $=$. It would sort triangles on their area. Defining order over the extreme equivalence would make lexicographical ordering of triangles. And I don't see a practical order relation over the $≡$.
So which equivalence relation does a partial order refer?
$a=b$ means $a$ and $b$ are the same element of $P$. If you want to put a partial order on the set of equivalence classes of $P$ (under some other equivalence relation) then you can do that. Then anti-symmetry has the same interpretation but in the set of equivalence classes.