Let $M$ be a connected $n$-dimensional manifold and $\omega:TM\to \Bbb R^n$ a parallelism, that is a $\mathbb R^n$ valued $1$-form that is an isomorphism at each tangent space, alternatively described by a frame $(b_1,...,b_n)$ of vector fields $\mathfrak X(M)$ so that the restriction to any tangent space is a basis.
Let $f_n:M \to M$ is a sequence of diffeomorphisms preserving the parallelism, that is $f_n^*(\omega)=\omega$ or $D_xf_n(b_{i,x})=b_{i,f_n(x)}$ for all $x\in M$. My question is:
If there exists a point $x\in M$ so that $f_n(x)$ converges, does there exist a diffeomorphism $f$ and subsequence $f_{n_k}$ so that $f_{n_k}\to f$?
My question can be reformulated more concisely:
Let $\mathrm{Aut}(\omega,M)$ be the group of diffeomorphisms preserving a parallelism $\omega$, does $\mathrm{Aut}(\omega,M)$ act properly on $M$?
The topology of $\mathrm{Aut}(\omega,M)$ is the inherited topology of $\mathrm{Diffeo}(M)$, which should mean that the notion of convergence is that of uniform convergence on compacta.
Notice that we can endow $M$ with a Riemannian metric using the frame of vector fields $b_1,\ldots,b_n$. Then your question is true if $M$ is compact:
A diffeomorphism $f$ preserves $\omega$ iff it is an isometry.
Let $K$ be a compact nhood containing $\{f_n(x)\}_{n\in\mathbb N}$. Consider the family $\mathcal F$ of all isometries $g:M\rightarrow M$ such that $g(x)\in K$. Then in the compact-open topology of $C(M,M)$, $\mathcal F$ is equicontinuous as $\mathcal F$ consists of isometries. $\mathcal F$ is pointwise relative compact, i.e., for any $z\in M$ we have that $\{g(z):g\in \mathcal F\}$ is relatively compact since $M$ is compact.
If $\{f_n\}_{n\in\mathbb N}$ is a sequence of metric isometries $M\rightarrow M$ which converge to a function $f$, then $f$ is a metric isometry, and thus by the Myers-Steenrod theorem we get that $f$ is an isometry of Riemann manifolds. Therefore $\mathcal F$ is closed in $C(M,M)$.
Thus $\mathcal F$ is compact in $C(M,M)$ by the generalized Arzelà-Ascoli theorem, and hence in particular your question is true.
As Moishe Kohan indicates in the comments the Arzelà-Ascoli holds using a diagonal argument if the metric given to $M$ turns out to be complete, as $M$ by definition is second countable.
In this case we define $$\mathcal F:=\{M\xrightarrow gM:g\text{ is an isometry and }g(x)\in K\},$$
where $K$ is some compact subset of $M$ containing the sequence $\{f_n(x)\}_{n\in\mathbb N}$.
Equicontinuity of $\mathcal F$ holds as again $\mathcal F$ consists of isometries of $M$. $\mathcal F$ is closed using again the Myers-Steenrod theorem and that $K$ is closed. Finally, $\mathcal F$ is pointwise relatively compact since for any $z\in M$ the set $\{g(z):g\in\mathcal F\}$ has bounded distance from $K$ as $g(x)\in K$ for all $g\in\mathcal F$, and thus the completeness of $M$ implies $\overline{\{g(z):g\in\mathcal F\}}$ is compact.