It shows that the sentences of the form $\forall x, \neg Dem(x,sub(n,y,n))$ are true but unprovable, where $y$ is the Godel number mapped to the symbol $Y$ in arithmetic language, and $n$ is the Godel number of the sentence $\forall x, \neg Dem(x, sub(Y,y,Y))$
Suppose for some $y$, the sentence $\forall x, \neg Dem(x,sub(n,y,n))$ has the Godel number 1000. Then following is a true but unprovable property of the number 1000:
"The number 1000 can never be at the end of a sequence of natural numbers $x_{k}, k=1,2,3,....n$, such that every $x_{k}$ is either a Godel number of an axiom or of a sentence logically deducible from the axioms."
Properties like this, however, are a very narrow class of the properties of natural numbers. Is this even an arithmetic property? I'm asking this because this property does not involve operations of arithmetic like addition, multiplication. Instead, it involves decoding the number to a language of symbols and using rules of logical deduction. Arithmetic properties are something like '$\forall x, 10x\neq 5, x\in Z$'
Even if this is accepted as an arithmetic property, it is a very narrow class of arithmetic properties. These properties are also dependent on the map that we use for the one-to-one correspondence between integers and symbols (there are multiple maps possible). Does the Incompleteness theorem say anything about non- self referential properties of numbers?
The first incompleteness theorem states that certain theories, under certain conditions, are incomplete.
To prove that something is incomplete, you need to provide a witness of that. But of course, if the example of incompleteness is something like the Goldbach Conjecture, or the Riemann Hypothesis, what would be the example once you add those statements to your theory? The proof needs to be robust.
Well, Gödel's proof is generic, it uses the fact that theories with certain properties can encode certain statement, and this is how the witness is produced. By creating these "self-referential statements". The second incompleteness theorem is slightly deeper, and it talks about a theory not being able to verify its own consistency, which is arguably a more interesting example.
But if your goal is to prove incompleteness, you need to be able to do it in a generic, constructive way. And since we decide, socially, what are "meaningful statements", it's hard to do that with "meaningful statements".
Some people fall into the trap of thinking that incompleteness is only with regards to "meaningless self-referential statements and consistency statements", but if we take a gander at set theory, we see this is very much not true. And while it is admittedly harder to find independence in the natural numbers, it is still not impossible. (And arguably, consistency statements are meaningful mathematical statement.)