What does it mean for some element $x$ to be an element of the equivalence class $[y]$.
If I have some set $A$, and an equivalence relation, $R$, and the equivalence class is not explicitly defined, I know $A \times A$ gives me the subset $R$, does that mean for every $s \in A$, $[y] = \{ s \in A \mid (s,y)\}.$
So, isn't it already implied that $x$ is an element of $[y]$ because within $A \times A$ we have $(x,y)$.
$[y] := \{s \in A \mid (s,y) \in R\}$. If $A = \{1,2\}$, one possible equivalence relation is $R = \{(1,1), (2,2)\}$. Then $1 \not \in [2]$, since $(1,2) \not \in R$.