When reading about weighted (co)limits in enriched category theory, most examples are given in the context of $\mathsf{Cat}$-enriched categories (ie. 2-limits in 2-category theory) or $\mathsf{sSet}$-enriched categories (ie. homotopy (co)limits), see for example here.
I find the latter rather hard to work with and while 2-limits are comparatively easy to grasp, they still belong to the category theory bubble (categories for the sake of categories). But there are other easy bases of enrichment (notably $\mathsf{Ab}$, $\mathsf{Mod}_R$ or $\mathsf{Poset}$), for which to my surprise I could not find any discussions of weighted (co)limits. Hence
Besides the tensor product, what are interesting examples of weighted (co)-limits in $\mathsf{Ab}$- or $\mathsf{Mod}_R$-enriched categories?
I've started to compute some random weighted limits, but would like to know whether there are some obvious candidates I didn't see yet. Maybe we are in a similar situation as in $\mathsf{Set}$-enriched categories in that limits and weighted limits have the same strength, in which case a warning would be very welcome. Anyway thank you very much for your considerations.
$\require{AMScd}$One example is 4.2.1 here (although not exactly in a category of R-modules, but in a category of chain complexes): the cone of a chain map $f : X_* \to Y_*$ is a weighted colimit.
Of course, this is not exactly an answer to your question, because this works in a sense you have not abandoned homotopy theory, which is where weighted co/limits become powerful, by virtue of the Bousfield-Kan formula.
In the case of posets, what I would do is to review Kelly's "Elementary observations on 2-categorical limits" and specialise the usual shapes of weights and diagrams to the case of a $\text{Pos}$-enriched diagram, regarding posets as categories (but I expect that the absence of more than 1 2-cell between any two given 1-cells trivialises a lot some constructions). On this line, my advice would be to familiarise with "2-category theory done in a posetal universe", for example reading about monoidal topology or quantales/quantaloids.
This question is interesting on its own right: as a rule of thumb, every base of enrichment that allows for a "construction of elements" allows to reduce weighted co/limits to conical ones, over said category of elements. By "construction of elements" I mean a fully faithful functor $$ {\cal V}\text{-Cat}({\cal A},{\cal V}) \hookrightarrow \text{DFib}/{\cal A} $$ obtained as follows: to a $\cal V$-presheaf $F$ on $\cal A$ you associate the pullback $$ \begin{CD} E(F) @>>> {\cal V}_\bullet \\ @VVV @VVUV\\ {\cal A} @>>F> {\cal V} \end{CD} $$ along a "universal fibration" $U : {\cal V}_\bullet \to {\cal V}$ (for ${\cal V} = \text{Set}$, $U$ is the forgetful functor from pointed sets).