I know there are similar questions here but I can't understand them. This one, for example Find the line that intersects two other lines
So, in my problem I have to find the line named $T$ that passes through the point $(1,1,0)$ and cuts line $$r: \left\{ \begin{array}{l} x+z=0 \\y=-2 \end{array} \right. \qquad \qquad s: \left\{ \begin{array}{l} x=1 \\y-z+3=0 \end{array} \right.$$. \ The thing is that I don't really understand what to do. I mean, the why of doing something.
Hint:
Denote $A$ the point with coordinates $(1,1,0)$. This point, together with $r$ determines a plane $\Pi$ belonging to the pencil of planes with basis the planes $x+z=0$, $y+2=0$, i.e. its equation is $$\lambda(x+z)+\mu(y+2)=0,\quad \lambda,\mu\in\mathbf R.$$ Note that these coefficients are defined up to a nonzero factor.
Determine the coefficients $\lambda,\mu$. If $B$ is the intersection of line $s$ with $\Pi$, the sought line is $(AB)$.
Variant: Determine in the same way the equation of the plane $\Pi'$ defined by $A$ and the line $s$. The sought line in the intersection of $\Pi$ and $\Pi'$.