I've got
$2x+4=2x\lambda$ , $2y-4=2y\lambda$
$\lambda =\frac{x+2}{x}$, $\lambda=\frac{y-2}{y}$
$\frac{x+2}{x}=\frac{y-2}{y}$
$(\frac{x+2}{x})^2+(\frac{y-2}{y})^2$ = 9 //based on another that just used equals the right hand side number like this
and $ x^2+4x+y^2-4y=1$ which didn't get me anywhere.
Also tried
$\frac{y-2}{y}=\frac{x+2}{x}=1+\frac{2}{x}$
$\frac{-2}{y}=\frac{2}{x}$
$(\frac{-2}{y})^2+(\frac{2}{x})^2=9$
The answer are min at (-2, 2) and max at $(\frac{3}{ \sqrt{2}} \frac{-3}{ \sqrt{2}})$
I can kinda of see where you could get the first point from the second thing I tried but no clue about the second point.
Just because you have found that
$\frac{x+2}{x}=\frac{y-2}{y}$ doesn't mean that $x = \frac{x+2}{x}$ and you can plug it into your equation $x^2 + y^2 = 9$
$x = \frac {-2}{1-\lambda}, y = \frac {2}{1-\lambda}$
And plug that into:
$x^2 + y^2 \le 9\\ (-2)^2 + 2^2 \le 9 (1-\lambda)^2\\ 0\ge 1-\lambda\le \frac {\sqrt {8}}{3}$
Now before applying calculus, it should be clear: $f(x) = (x+2)^2 + (y-2)^2 - 8$
$f(x)$ is the square of the distance from the point (-2,2) less a constant.
The absolute minimum is at $(-2,2)$
The maximal distance from the point, inside the disk, is on the boundary of the disk, straight across from the center of the disk.