Let R be the relation defined on the set of integer pairs by $(x_1,y_1)R(x_2,y_2)$ when $x_{1}^{2}$ + $y_{1}^{2}$ = $x_{2}^{2}$ + $y_{2}^{2}$.
Prove that R is an equivalence relation and determine the equivalence classes.
So to prove it's an equivalence relation
I said
Symmetric - Yes, because $x_{2}^{2}$ + $y_{2}^{2}$ = $x_{1}^{2}$ + $y_{1}^{2}$.
Reflexive - Yes, because $x_{1}^{2}$ + $y_{1}^{2}$ = $x_{1}^{2}$ + $y_{1}^{2}$.
Transitive = Yes, because
$x_{1}^{2}$ + $y_{1}^{2}$ = $x_{2}^{2}$ + $y_{2}^{2}$.
$x_{2}^{2}$ + $y_{2}^{2}$ = $x_{3}^{2}$ + $y_{3}^{2}$.
$x_{1}^{2}$ + $y_{1}^{2}$ = $x_{3}^{2}$ + $y_{3}^{2}$.
I think this is enough to prove it's an equivalence relation.
Now I am new to this, and my understanding of equivalence classes is basically list all the things that satisfy this relation.
I'm not sure if that's correct, but here is what I got from that
$$[x,y] =\{(x,y),(x,-y),(-x,y),(x,y)\}$$
is this correct, are there alternate ways?
Your proof is rather sloppy. To prove, for example, that the relation is symmetric, you should prove that $$\forall (x_1,y_1),(x_2,y_2)\in\Bbb{Z}^2:\qquad (x_1,y_1)R(x_2,y_2)\quad\implies\quad(x_2,y_2)R(x_1,y_1).$$ Similarly, to prove reflexivity, you should prove that $$\forall (x_1,y_1)\in\Bbb{Z}^2:\qquad (x_1,y_1)R(x_1,y_1),$$ and something similar for transitivity.
Your characterization of the equivalence classes is incorrect. As noted in the comments $(4,3)R(5,0)$, for example. In stead, consider the fact that for every $(x_i,y_i)\in\Bbb{Z}^2$ we can set $c_i:=x_i^2+y_i^2$, and then for all $(x,y)\in[(x_i,y_i)]$ we have $$x^2+y^2=x_i^2+y_i^2=c_i.$$ Can you tell what these sets (these equivalence classes) look like geometrically?