I seem to have forgotten how to find a kernel and it's frustrating me. I want to solve
$$ \begin{pmatrix} 1-\phi & 1 \\ 1 & -\phi \\ \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} x \\ y \\ \end{pmatrix} = \begin{pmatrix} 0 \\ 0 \\ \end{pmatrix} $$ ($\phi = \frac{1 + \sqrt{5}}{2}$ if that's relevant) this of course just amounts to finding the Kernel. However, I keep getting a trivial solution and I'm not sure where I'm going wrong.
$$ \left[ \begin{array}{cc|c} 1-\phi&1&0\\ 1&-\phi&0 \end{array} \right] \implies \left[ \begin{array}{cc|c} 1&\frac1{1-\phi}&0\\ 1&-\phi&0 \end{array} \right] \implies \left[ \begin{array}{cc|c} 1&\frac1{1-\phi}&0\\ 0&-\phi-\frac1{1-\phi}&0 \end{array} \right] $$
Adding a certain multiple of the second row to the first would then result in
$$\left[ \begin{array}{cc|c} 1&0&0\\ 0&1&0 \end{array} \right] $$
Clearly, there is a gap in my knowledge somewhere
Let us recall what $\phi$ is. Namely, the positive solution to $x^2 = x + 1$ (you can verify this if you'd like). Thus we have
$$ \begin{align*} \phi^2 &= \phi + 1 \\ \phi &= 1 + \phi^{-1} \text{ (dividing by $\phi$)} \\ \phi - 1 &= \phi^{-1} \\ \frac{1}{\phi - 1} &= \phi \\ \frac{1}{1 - \phi} &= -\phi \end{align*} $$
and there are a bunch more identities you can write down. What's important is to recognize that
$$ -\phi - \frac{1}{1 - \phi} = 0 \text{ and } \frac{1}{1 - \phi} = - \phi. $$
Thus in your row reduction, you have
$$ \left[ \begin{array}{cc|c} 1 & -\phi & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 \end{array} \right] $$ and you can figure out the kernel from there.