I'm trying to solve the following problem:
Let $G$ be a group of order 12. Assume the 3-Sylow subgroups of $G$ are not normal. Prove that $G\cong A_4$.
Here's my attempt: let $\mathscr S$ be the set of 3-Sylow subgroups of $G$. Since the elements of $\mathscr S$ are not normal, by Sylow's theorem, $\# \mathscr S > 1$. Again by Sylow's theorem, $\#\mathscr S = 4$ and the elements of $\mathscr S$ are conjugate to each other. Hence, one can define a group action of $G$ on $\mathscr S$ by conjugation, and this defines a homomorphism $\phi : G\rightarrow \mathrm{Sym}(\mathscr S)\cong S_4$. Thus, it suffices to show that $\phi$ is injective and its image is $A_4$.
But I'm stuck at this last step. I tried to find the kernel of $\phi$ and found that $a\in\mathrm{Ker}\phi\Leftrightarrow \forall H\in\mathscr S\ aHa^{-1} = H$, but I do not understand what this leads to.
I would be most grateful if you could provide a clue (not necessarily a complete solution).
Let $S_1$ and $S_2$ be two of the Sylow $3$-subgroups. If $a \in \ker \phi$, then in particular
$$aS_1a^{-1} = S_1 \Rightarrow a \in N_G(S_1).$$
The same holds for $S_2$, so
$$\ker \phi \subset N_G(S_1) \cap N_G(S_2).$$
Now, since the Sylow $3$-subgroups aren't normal, what is $N_G(S_i)$?