I'm so confused... I think I got the meaning of flux, it's a scalar that indicates the "quantity of a vector field (of field lines)" that crosses a surface of a given area. So no time relation implied right?
First: is flow and flux the same thing in English when talking about physics? (in Italian we just refer to it with the word "flusso")
Why I often read, about fluid flow (flux?) : it's the quantity that measures volume that crosses a surface per unit time?
Is this a misunderstanding? is this the definition of flow rate?
Is flow rate and flow the same thing in the field of velocity of a fluid?
Is the mass ( or volume) of the fluid bond to the vectorial field in a fluid, or I can just pick the velocity of a point in the fluid without considering the mass?
Is flow rate the dual of current for an electromagnetic field?
How is current related to flux?
Maybe the key is the divergence theorem... I need some sleep +.+
It's a lot of questions but they are strictly related to each other, I guess, the point is that I studied those things separately, I can't build an organic connection in my head.
In the literary sense, "Flux" is derived from the Latin word "Fluxus" which literally means flow. Mathematically, Any Integral of the type $$I = \int\int_S \mathbf{F}(x,y,z) \cdot \mathbf{\hat{n}}\quad dS $$ is called the "flux" of $\textbf{F}$ through S. In order to give a more physical feeling, the fluid flow is the most canonical example of flux. Note that there is no inherent temporal nature to the mathematically meaning of flux. Flux described for fluid has a time factor in it supplied by the fluid velocity field but it is not the case in general.
In the fluid case, $$\text{Flux through S} = \int\int_s \rho(x,y,z)\mathbf{v}(x,y,z)\cdot \mathbf{\hat{n}} \quad dS$$ Here, $\mathbf{F} = \rho(x,y,z)\mathbf{v}(x,y,z)$, and we are talking about flux of $\mathbf{F}$. But "flux" is always not a physically intuitive quantity, an equation that takes the form of $I$, is a "Flux of $\mathbf{F}$ over $S$". I would recommend you to reffer "Div, Grad, Curl- h.m schey" for any problems in understanding vector calculus, but chapter-II, page 29 for flux.
Imagine the case where $S$ is just a plane surface of unit area and let density $\rho$ be 1, and the fluid is moving with constant velocity $v$, what is the amount of fluid that passes this surface in unit time? Now, what if this surface is hemisphere? Now, what if the velocity is not constant? Do these steps constructively and you will understand the expression of "Flux through S". So this a case where the layman flux coincides with the mathematical flux. But the mathematical flux as I mention in the very first equation, need not coincide with this. I think you need to give up the idea of flux you have from your experience with fluids and adopt the meaning as given by @Milo Brandt in the first part of his answer, and then from there see fluid flux as a special case emerging from the definition.