Given is relation $R = \left\{(1,1),(1,5),(2,4),(3,3),(4,1),(4,2),(5,4)\right\}$
What's its equivalence relation $h_{\text{equiv}}(R)$? Draw a digraph for $h_{\text{equiv}}(R)$.
I check in internet a relation is equivalence relation if it have properties: reflexive, symmetric, transitive.
This means I need change relation $R$ so it have these $3$ properties, right?
Is allowed when I only take $\left\{(1,1)\right\}?$
Because this is reflexive because we only have $1$ and it's relation with $1$, it's symmetric too and also transitive because transitivity need two condition satisfied and this we have only one pair so we don't need second condition of transitivity satisfied. So also transitive relation.
We have $h_{\text{equiv}}(R) = \left\{(1,1)\right\}$
Digraph:

Given your description of $$R = \{ (1,1), (1,5), (2,4), (3,3), (4,1), (5,4) \},$$ I suppose this is a relation on the set $$\{ 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 \}.$$ If $h_{equiv}(R)$ is the equivalence relation generated by $R$, then you can obtain this relation by following the procedure:
So \begin{align} h_{equiv}(R) &= \{ (1,1), (1,2), (1,4), (1,5), (2,1), (2,2), (2,4), (2,5), \\ &(3,3), (4,1), (4,2), (4,4), (4,5), (5,1), (5,2), (5,4), (5,5) \} \end{align}
Its graph is the complete graph on the set $\{1,2,4,5\}$ union with the single element $\{3\}$