I'd like to rebuild from the ground up and really make sure I have a strong grasp on probability and statistics.
I am able to compute answers in a pinch but I'd like a more formal understanding so I can really ensure I am being systematic about it. For example I have no idea what a probability mass/density function is.
Are there any good resources that go over all the basics and fundamentals while also providing answers to check my work against?
A warm suggestion: Go online to half.com or amazon and look for a used statistics book. You don't need the latest version (expensive), you can also go for a previous version (=cheap, I would have given you mine for free if you had lived around the corner). My favorite: Introduction to statistics by Mario Triola, from which I taught the course couple of semesters to nursing students. I liked the book, good explanations and examples. (But there are other stats books as well). The answers (odds) are in the back, stats tables are with it too, and if not, those are available on the internet as well. You got everything in one book instead of bunch of PDF's. And if you get stuck on a problem, post it on MSE and we can help...Good luck!