A well known and oft-utilized fact from 3-manifold topology is that all closed, orientable 3-manifolds admit Heegaard splittings.
I am trying to understand what the appropriate notion of Heegaard splitting for a closed, nonorientable 3-manifold should be, assuming I want lots of familiar facts to carry over to this setting. I'm also curious about the interaction with the orientable case.
In particular, some things I am pondering include:
Given a closed, nonorientable 3-manifold $Y$,
1) Can one decompose $Y = H_{1} \cup_{\Sigma}H_{2}$, for some surface $\Sigma \hookrightarrow Y$, and some (possibly nonorientable) handlebodies $H_{1},H_{2}$ ?
2) Can one decompose $Y = \Sigma \coprod \tilde{H}$, for a one-sided surface $\Sigma \hookrightarrow Y$ and an open handlebody $\tilde{H}$?
And in the same vein as this question:
3) Can one realize $Y$ as a quotient $M/h$ of a free, involutive, orientation reversing homeomorphism $h:M \rightarrow M$ of an orientable 3-manifold $M$, where $h$ exchanges the two sides $U,V$ of some Heegaaard splitting $M= U \cup V$?
Check the proof of Theorem 1 in J. H. Rubinstein. One-sided Heegaard splittings of 3-manifolds: While he proves a slightly different theorem than in your question, I think, his argument will yield what you want. The nontrivial mod 2 cohomology class that he is using will be replaced by the canonical element of $H_2(M,Z_2)$ Poincare-dual to the element of $H^1(M,Z_2)$ which sends each orientation-reversing 1-cycle to $1\in Z_2$.