Over $\mathbb{Z}$, $aRb \iff a \le b \lor a = 3b$. Determine if it is total.
I think it is:
Have arbitrary elements $a,b \in \mathbb{Z}$.
We have to prove that $aRb \lor bRa$, which can be written as:
$$(a \le b \lor a = 3b) \lor (b \le a \lor b = 3a)$$
Further simplified:
$$(a \le b) \lor (b \le a)$$
Clearly, this should be a tautology. But I'm failing to further simplify this. What else can I do with it?
Your simplified $(a \le b) \lor (b \le a)$ is indeed a tautology, because its negation is the following contradiction $(x > y) \land (y > x)$.