I have no idea how to start this problem. It is asking to prove if the following relation R on the set of all integers where $(x,y) \in R$ is reflexive, symmetric and/or transitive.
1) $(x, y)\in R \iff x\neq y$
2) $(x, y)\in R\iff x = y + 1 \;\text{ or }\; x = y - 1.$
Hints:
$(1)$
(Reflexive?) Can it ever be the case that $x \neq x$? No: no ordered pair of the form $(x, x)$ can be in the relation R.
(Symmetric?) For all $x, y \in \mathbb Z$, does $x\neq y $ imply $y\neq x$? Of cource it does.
(Transitive?) Suppose $x \neq y$ and $y\neq z$. Does this necessarily mean that $x\neq z$? Hint: let $x = z = 1, y = 2$. So $(1, 2) \in R$ and $(2, 1) \in R$, but clearly, $(1, 1)\notin R$ because $1 = 1$.