I am trying to understand why the left-hand square of the diagram below (in a topos) is a pullback,
where $\Delta_B$ is the diagonal map, $\delta_B$ is clearly the characteristic map of $\Delta _B$ and $\langle b,1\rangle$ is the unique map induced by the universal property of the product. Clearly the right-hand square is a pullback by definition, but why is the left one? The author of the book says "the first square is a pullback by inspection". Do I have to check the very definition of a pullback involving the universal property, or is there an easier way to do this?
I have found myself before in similar situations where I have a diagram consisting of commutative squares and need to check if they are pullbacks. I wonder whether it possible to see that you actually have a pullback without a lot of calculations; if there is a general way. I know that if you have two pullbacks then you get another one by putting them together, but I am asking about situations like the above, where you just need to check whether four maps put together in a square actually form a pullback. Thanks for any help.
It may help to see the pullback characterized by generalized elements, to make the argument better resemble the obvious set-theoretic analog. The diagram
$$ \begin{matrix}A &\xrightarrow{f}& B \\ \ \ \downarrow g& & \ \ \downarrow h \\ C &\xrightarrow{i}& D \end{matrix} $$
is a pullback if and only if, for any pair of generalized elements $b \in B$ and $c \in C$ with the same domain satisfying $h(b) = i(c)$, there is an element $a \in A$ (with the same domain) such that $f(a) = b$ and $g(a) = C$.
For the particular case of interest, if we have elements $u,v,w$ such that $(u,v) \in B \times X$ and $w \in B$ such that $(1 \times b)(u,v) = \Delta_B(w)$, then we have $u = w = b(v)$, and obviously $v \in X$ has the desired property.
(if you've never seen generalized elements before, a generalized element of $X$ is simply any arrow with codomain $X$, but used with this modified element-like syntax. e.g. $f(a)$ is the composite $f \circ a$ viewed as a genearlized element of $B$)