In a first countable space, what's a good way of going from nets to sequences?
Let me explain more clearly what I mean. Suppose $f:X\to Y$ is a topological map and $X$ is first countable. Then I believe the following three conditions are equivalent:
$$ \tag {i}\text{ For every convergent net $x_{\alpha} \to x,\,f(x_{\alpha}) \to f(x)$. }$$ $$ \tag{ii} \text{ For every convergent sequence $x_{i} \to x,\,f(x_{i}) \to f(x)$. }$$ $$\tag{iii} \text{ $f$ is continuous. }$$
The only way I know right now to prove (ii)$\implies$(i) is to show (ii)$\implies$(iii)$\implies$(i). But suppose I wanted to attempt a direct proof. I would start with a net $x_\alpha \to x$, and I'd like to find a way of converting it into a sequence $x_i$, whose convergence guaranteed the convergence of $x_{\alpha}$. It seems like there should be a trick for this.
Similarly, in a first countable space, the following three conditions are equivalent:
$$ \tag {1}\text{ Every net $x_{\alpha}$ in $X$ has a convergent subnet. }$$ $$ \tag{2} \text{ Every sequence $x_{\alpha}$ in $X$ has a convergent subsequence. }$$ $$\tag{3} \text{ $X$ is compact. }$$
In proving (2)$\implies$(1) directly, I'd like to make a similar conversion from net to sequence.
Does anyone know how to do this?
The three items that you have pointed out are not equivalent in the class of first-countable spaces.
To see that (1) and (2) are not equivalent, not that $[0,1]$ is a compact subset of $\mathbb{R}$, and is therefore sequentially compact (which is your statement (2)). Recall that the least uncountable ordinal $\omega_1$ is linearly ordered by $<$ (and is therefore directed). Fixing an injective mapping $\omega_1 \to [0,1]$, $\{ x_\xi : \xi < \omega_1 \}$, I claim that no subnet of this net is convergent. The basic idea here is that any subnet of a net indexed by $\omega_1$ must itself have a subnet which is indexed by $\omega_1$, so we might as well assume that the original net converges to some $x \in [0,1]$. Then there must be an increasing sequence $\{ \xi_n \}_{n \in \mathbb{N}}$ in $\omega_1$ such that for any $n \in \mathbb{N}$ and any $\xi \geq \xi_n$ we have $| x - x_\xi | < \frac{1}{n}$. Setting $\xi_* = \sup_{n \in \mathbb{N}} \xi_n$ it follows that $x_\xi = x$ for all $\xi \geq \xi_*$ contradicting that we began with an injective net! (Only the fact that $[0,1]$ is first-countable and Hausdorff was really used here.)
The basic example of a sequentially compact first-countable space which is not compact is the ordinal space $\omega_1 = [0, \omega_1)$ of all countable ordinals with the order topology. Any sequence $\{ \alpha_n \}_{n \in \mathbb{N}}$ in $\omega_1$ will have either a constant subseqeunce or a strictly increasing subsequence. In the former case it is easy to see that it has a convergent subsequence. In the latter case, you take the strictly increasing subsequence $\{ \alpha_{n_k} \}_{k \in \mathbb{N}}$, and see that the supremum $\alpha = \sup_{k \in \mathbb{N}} \alpha_{n_k} < \omega_1$ is the limit of this subsequence. (It is not compact because the family $\{ [ 0 , \alpha ) : \alpha < \omega_1 \}$ is an open cover with no finite (indeed, no countable) subcover.