Question: We have conic section $-12x^2 + 28xy+4x-9y^2-8y=0$ and a point not on a conic $(2/5,1/5)$, how to find an intersection point with tangent dropped from $(2/5,1/5)$ to a conic section?
My ideas: to use polar points and Homogeneous coordinates
If you want to use pole-and-polar relation with homogeneous coordinates, matrix notation looks more elegant.
$$0= \begin{pmatrix} x & y & z \\ \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} a & h & g \\ h & b & f \\ g & f & c \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} x \\ y \\ z \end{pmatrix}$$
$$(x',y',z')$$
$$0= \begin{pmatrix} x' & y' & z' \\ \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} a & h & g \\ h & b & f \\ g & f & c \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} x \\ y \\ z \end{pmatrix}$$
In usual practice, we take $$z=z'=1$$
Polar is a tangent if the pole itself is on the conic; whereas if the pole "outside" the conic, the polar is the chord of contact. Intersection of the polar and the conic are your intersection.
See also another posts of mine here and here.