There's this well known characterization of the first $\operatorname{Ext}$ group of two objects in a abelian category:
There is an isomorphism between $\operatorname{Ext}^1(B,A)$ and the group of equivalence classes of short exact sequences of the form $A \hookrightarrow \_\_ \twoheadrightarrow B$. If $A$ and $B$ are abelian groups, these are called the group extensions of $B$ by $A$.
Can we say anything crisp like this to characterize $\operatorname{Ext}^2$? Or $\operatorname{Ext}^n$ in general? It looks like we can, but I am unfamiliar with $n$-extensions and the construction of the Baer sum of two chains.
There is this description in terms of extensions of length $n$, but as far as I know it's not useful for anything; in any case I've never used it for anything. Here are three descriptions that are actually useful: