Let $D_{2\cdot 8}$ be given by the group presentation $\langle x,y\mid xy = yx^{-1} , y^2 = e, x^8 = e\rangle$. Let $G = F_{\{x,y\}}$ be the free group on two generators and $N = \langle\{xyx^{-1}y,y^2,x^8\}\rangle$. Then
- $N$ is a normal subgroup of $G$.
- The quotient group $G/N$ is isomorphic to $D_{2\cdot 8}$.
For 1. I need to show that $gng^{-1}\in N$ for all $g\in G$, $n\in N$, i.e. that $N$ is closed under conjugation by elements of $G$. But for example I don't see how we could write $yx^8y^{-1}$ as a product of elements of $\{xyx^{-1}y, y^2,x^8\}$ and their inverses.
For 2. I see that the quotient group must consist of $2\cdot8=16$ equivalence classes. But I don't see how we find these explicitly.
I believe it suffices to exhibit a group homomorphism $\varphi$ such that $\ker\varphi = \langle\{xyx^{-1}y,y^2,x^8\}\rangle$ and $\mathrm{Im}\varphi\cong G/N$, by the first isomorphism theorem. But I am not sure how to define this homomorphism exactly.
Hint: Define $\varphi \colon F_{\lbrace x,y \rbrace} \rightarrow D_{2 \cdot 8}$, by sending $x$ and $y$ to the two generators of the dihedral group that you also called $x$ and $y$ in the presentation above. The kernel will then be given by the relations of the dihedral group which is exactly what you want and what you can see from the presentation.