Suppose that we have a finitely generated and residually finite group $G = K\rtimes\mathbb{Z}$, but $K$ is not finitely generated. Let $T$ be a finite subset of $K$ such that $\langle (0,1), (k,0)\mid k \in T \rangle$ is a generating set of $G$. Let $H = \langle T \rangle$, a finitely generated subgroup of $K$.
Now, suppose in addition, that the automorphism satisfies that $ H \not\subset \phi(1)(H) $ and $ H \not\subset \phi(-1)(H)$. (A example of group satisfies this property is the wreath product $H \wr \mathbb{Z}$)
Question: Is it possible that the fixed points of $\phi(1)$, which is the automorphism on $K$ corresponding to $1_\mathbb{Z}$, does not form a normal subgroup of $K$.
My thought so far: Cleary $K$ cannot be abelian (hence we can't construct such a group using wreath product). Also, there is another group given by Derek (https://mathoverflow.net/a/419028/479955) in a related question, in this case, $K$ is not abelian, but $Z(K)$, the centre of $K$, consists exactly all the fixed points, and so the set of fixed points is a normal subgroup of $K$.
Any help/idea to construct such a group would be really appreciated.
How about the group defined by the presentation $$\left\langle x_i\,(i \in {\mathbb Z}),y,z \mid x_i^3= [x_i.x_j]= (x_iy)^2 = 1, x_i^z = x_{i+1}\, (\forall i,j \in {\mathbb Z}),y^z=y \right\rangle$$ with $K = \langle x_i\,(i \in {\mathbb Z}),y \rangle$ and $T = \{ x_0,y\}$. So $\phi(1)$ fixes $y$ and maps $x_i$ to $x_{i+1}$ for all $i$.
(This contains $C_3 \wr {\mathbb Z}$ as a subgroup of index $2$.)
Then ${\rm Fix}_K(\phi(1)) = \langle y \rangle$, which is not normal in $G$.