I’m sorry I couldn’t upload a photo, so I’ll try to explain it as best as I can.
The quadrilateral has a pair of opposite and equal sides, and has a pair of opposite equal angles (85 degrees in the question). Can I say this is a parallelogram or not?
I tried drawing a shape with those conditions that is not a parallelogram and I failed. Thanks in advance, and again sorry for not having a photo and I hope I explained it well enough.
No, it is not a parallelogram. It is changed/distorted in the manner shown here.
We start with a parallelogram $AbCD$ .. which is not acceptable. A distortion should now be effected. To retain the included angle we move on a circum-circle locus of a half of parallelogram two adjacent sides building on same side of chord. To retain same side length it is made out as rotated constant radius of a circle centered at $A$ and now these two circles should intersect to satisfy either condition.
By construction we set $\angle b= \angle B = \angle D $ equally on the same side of of the circle chord. Also $AB=Ab=CD$ as opposite sides in the initial parallelogram $AbCD$ before shift, and the required quadrilateral (red) is $ABCD.$