everyone:
I've been reading my textbook for discrete math and a few other textbooks on the topic of binary relations, and finding that I'm struggling to understand the definitions. I think a lot can be clarified for me if someone can answer one thing:
If R is a symmetric binary relation on Set A, what are x and y in A? For me, it's easy to understand what x and y would be if x and y were in R since the elements of a binary relation are ordered pairs (x,y). Can someone help me visualize what they mean when they say x and y are from A?
Thank you so much!

It seems to me that there is some confusion here.
A binary relation (being symmetric or not is not important here) $R$ on a set $A$ is a subset of $A\times A$. Usually, instead of writing $(x,y)\in R$ (and here $x$ and $y$ are elements of $A$), we write $x\mathrel Ry$. Anyway, we only write $x\mathrel Ry$ (or $x\mathrel{\not R}y$ when $(x,y)\notin R$) when $x$ and $y$ are elements of $A$. Otherwise, it doesn't make sense.