Twenty husbands and wives (ten couples) are randomly divided into two groups. What is the probability that at exactly 4 wives are in the same group as their husbands?
Attempt: There are $\binom{40}{2}=780$ numbers of posible committees by dividing the couples into two groups. The way I thought about this problem was to have a bag filled with two colored balls both numbered 1-10 and drawing them out one by one. If there are exactly 4 couples together in a group that means there must be 1 male female pair in a committee with a different partner, or with the ball example two different colored balls with different numbers. So the number of ways of having a committee with exactly 4 couples is the number of pairs $$(1,2), \dots (1,10), (2,3), \dots (2,10), (3,4), \dots (3,10), \dots (9,10) = \sum_{i=1}^9 i = 45$$ therefore the probability is $45/780.$ Can anyone confirm this answer? I think it is wrong and I also think there is a much more elegant solution.
It is not clear to me what exactly is meant by "...are randomly divided into $2$ groups...". I preassume that the group of $20$ is randomly split up in a group $A$ and a group $B$ both containing $10$ persons.
If there are exactly $k$ married couples in group $A$ then automatically there are exactly $k$ married couples in group $B$.
So exactly $4$ women in the same group as their husband requires that $k=2$.
There are $\binom{10}{4}$ ways to choose $4$ married couples. There are $\binom{4}{2}$ different ways to put $2$ of those couples in group $A$ and the other $2$ in group $B$.
There are $2^{6}$ ways to choose $6$ persons from the remaining $12$ such that among them there are no couples. The chosen $6$ are put in group $A$ and the remaining $6$ in group $B$.
There are in total $\binom{20}{10}$ ways to choose $10$ persons for group $A$.
Probability:$$\frac{\binom{10}{4}\binom{4}{2}2^{6}}{\binom{20}{10}}\sim0.4365$$