I'm a highschool student (okay, almost a highschool student - it's summer) that's self-studying. I know some basics of naive set theory, linear algebra, and single-variable calculus. I'd like to give topology a shot. I looked up 'Topology without tears' and began reading.
It makes sense (so far, anyway) but there's not really any intuition on what exactly a topology is. It's all axioms and definitions, and while I know that's how most math books are written, I'd just thought I'd ask if there was a book that isn't written that way.
As this answer puts it:
You don't learn what a vector space is by swallowing a definition that says
A vector space $\langle V,S\rangle$ is a set $V$ and a field $S$ that satisfy the following 8 axioms: …
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A good textbook will do this: it will reduce those 8 axioms to a brief statement of what the axioms are actually about, and provide a set of illuminating examples. In the case of the vector space, the brief statement I quoted, boldface in the original, was it: we can add any two vectors, and we can multiply vectors by scalars.
What's a textbook like that for topology? (I don't mind definitions; they're important. I'd just like some intuition to go with them.)
You might first want to study analysis, which will give you more of a motivation for learning topology. Analysis introduces you to many concepts in topology in a more tangible way, in more familiar contexts like the set of real numbers and metric spaces, where you at least have a notion of distance.
After analysis, you could study topology equipped with better intuition. This is the usual progression at the college level as well.
As for a text for introductory analysis, I recommended Principles of Mathematical Analysis by Walter Rudin. Chapter 2 covers the basic ideas of topology relevant to analysis.