I have a convex quadrilateral (ABIJ) similar to a trapezoid.

By condition $ABCDEFGHIJ$ is a regular decagon. Then $AB = JI$, $\angle BAJ = \angle IJA$.
We can prove that $\angle IBA= \angle BIJ, AI = BJ$.
Is it enough to say that $ABIJ$ is a trapezoid? How to verify AJ || BI ?

Call the intersection point of $BJ$ and $AI$, $K$. We have that $$\triangle IBJ \cong \triangle BIA \hspace{1.5 cm} \text{(by SSS criterion)} $$ and so $\angle IBJ=\angle BIA = a$.
Also, similarly $$\triangle BJA \cong \triangle IAJ$$ and so $\angle BJA =\angle IAJ =b$.
In $\triangle BKI$, $\angle BKI =\pi-2a$ and in $\triangle AKJ$, $\angle AKJ=\pi-2b$ and by vertically opposite angles we have that $$\angle BKI=\angle AKJ \\ \implies a=b$$ which further implies by reasoning of alternate angles being equal that $$AJ \ || \ BI$$