Is it possible to write the curl in terms of the infinitesimal rotation tensor? Basically, we can write the curl as a matrix operator
$$ curl=\begin{bmatrix} 0 & -\partial z & \partial y\\\partial z & 0 & -\partial x\\-\partial y & \partial x & 0\end{bmatrix} $$ and we can write the infinitesimal rotation tensor as a matrix operator (modulo a 1/2 constant) $$ \nabla-\nabla^T = \begin{bmatrix} 0 & -(\partial x-\partial y) & \partial z-\partial x\\ \partial x-\partial y & 0 & -(\partial y-\partial z)\\ -(\partial z-\partial x) & \partial y-\partial z & 0 \end{bmatrix}. $$ The axial vector to the infinitesimal rotation tensor is $$ \begin{bmatrix} \partial y-\partial z\\ \partial z-\partial x\\ \partial x-\partial y \end{bmatrix}, $$ which looks kind of like the curl, except that this seems kind of sloppy since we have a vector with a bunch of differential operators inside of it with no clear way on how to apply it.
As such, again, is there a way to write the curl in terms of the infinitesimal rotation tensor?
I'm making this CW as it's not exactly an answer, but, this is how some physicists define curl and divergence and it does almost immediately connect curl to circulation and divergence to change in flux. Probably semiclassical's comment is most useful towards the path you begin to walk.
We usually see definitions for curl and divergence which were based in Cartesian coordinates. However, some authors actually use the identities below to define curl and divergence. Naturally, if you use these as definitions then the question of what div and curl mean are easily answered. However, on the other hand, in that approach you have no simple formula to calculate curl or div until you have mastered both surface and line integrals.