The definition;
$(\forall \epsilon > 0)(\exists \delta > 0)(\forall x$ satisfying $0 <$ $|x-a| < \delta$ also satisfies $|f(x) - L| < \epsilon) \iff \lim_{x\to a} f(x) = L$
To explain my understanding, lets consider the following example;
$$\lim_{x\to 4} 3x^2 = 48.$$
Proof:
Let $\epsilon > 0$ be given such that $|3x^2 - 48| < \epsilon.$Then observe that $$|3x^2 - 48| = 3 \cdot |x-4| \cdot |x+4| < \epsilon.$$
Now, since our aim is to find a $\delta > 0$(probably as a function of $\epsilon$) such that for all $x$ satisfying $0 < |x-4| < \delta$, we have $|3x^2 - 48| < \epsilon$, i.e whatever the value of $\epsilon$ is, we just want to make sure that the condition is satisfied, so to be, sort of, safe and get rid of the factors, we can restrict ourselves by assuming $|x-4| < 1$, so this implies $|x+4| < 9$, so we have $$3 \cdot |x-4| \cdot |x+4| < 27 |x-4|,$$ and we already assumed that $$3 \cdot |x-4| \cdot |x+4| < \epsilon.$$
Now, if $\epsilon < 27 |x-4|$, there will be some $x$ such that $$3 \cdot |x-4| \cdot |x+4| \not < \epsilon,$$ which would contradict with out assumption, so we must have $$27 |x-4| \leq \epsilon,$$ which implies $|x-4| \leq \frac{\epsilon}{27}.$ However, this result is only valid if $|x-4| < 1$, so we must state that $$0 < |x-4| < \min\left\{1, \frac{\epsilon}{27}\right\} = \delta$$ QED.
First of all, is there any flow or misunderstanding in my understanding of the definition of the limit and generally with the proof of the example.
Secondly, in the book that I'm using it says that we don't want to make $|x-4|\cdot |x+4|$ too large, why ? what is wrong with it ? what if we do, then what ?
Edit:
As @md2perpe pointed out in his/her comment, there is logical mistake in the proof, so I'm writing the, so called, corrected version;
Let $\epsilon > 0$ be given. $$|3x^2 - 48| < \epsilon \iff 3 \cdot |x-4| \cdot |x+4| < \epsilon,$$ so let assume $|x-4| < 1$, hence $|x+4| < 9$, so we have $$|3x^2 - 48| = 3 \cdot |x-4| \cdot |x+4| < 27 |x-4|.$$ Since we want to find $\delta(\epsilon) > 0$, we want to relate $\epsilon$ to $\delta$, somehow, so if we say $\epsilon < 27 |x-4| < 27 \delta$, there will be some $x$ such that $0 < |x-4| < \delta$ but $|3x^2 - 48| \not < \epsilon$, so we consider the case $27 |x-4| < \epsilon$.Thus, $$0 < |x-4| < \delta = \min \{ 1, \frac{\epsilon}{27} \}$$
Example of proof-writing: Let $\epsilon >0.$ Let $\delta =\min (1,\epsilon /27).$ $$\text { Then }\;\; \delta >0, \;\;\text { and } \; 0<|x-4|<\delta \implies |3x^2-48|<\epsilon.$$ Proof: (i). That $\delta >0:$ Obvious.
$$\text {(ii). }\; 0<|x-4|<\delta \implies |3x^2-48|=3\cdot |x-4|\cdot |x+4|=$$ $$=3\cdot |x-4|\cdot |(x-4)+8|\leq$$ $$\leq 3\cdot |x-4|\cdot (|x-4|+8)\leq$$ $$\leq 3\cdot |x-4| \cdot (\delta +8)\leq $$ $$\leq 3\cdot |x-4|\cdot 9=27 |x-4|<$$ $$<27 \delta \leq 27 (\epsilon /27)=\epsilon.$$
In your work in your edited version, you did some successful "exploratory surgery" to find that $\delta =\min (1.\epsilon /27)$ would suffice. Essentially the implications in your work are going from right to left, so when you reach $\delta =\min (1,\epsilon /27)$ you should then present a re-arrangement into the form I have shown, so that you present a clear and complete picture of the "logical flow".... Or,if you prefer, just present the finished proof with no explanation of how you found it, in the style of Carl F. Gauss.