to prove $(x-y)$ divisible by $3$ as symmetric we use this method: let $xRy$ belongs to $A$ $$ \begin{align} (x-y)&=3k \\ -(x-y)&=-3k \\ (y-x)&=3(-k) \end{align} $$ therefore $yRx$ also belongs to $A$.
Now how do I prove $|x-y|\le 7$ as symmetric? I'm not able to understand. Or is it symmetric because of mod function and we don't use this method?
Let $S = \{ (x,y) \in \mathbb{R}^2 \mid |x-y| \le 7 \}$.
Since $|x-y| = |y-x|$, if $(x,y) \in S$ then $(y,x) \in S$. Hence, symmetric.