I read some note about Automaton Course. i see this note, that following all is the same. but i think the L(g) is not equal to NFA and regular expression. anyone could help me with defining the language of this figures (nfa, regular expression and grammar):

Note that $(a \mid b)^{*}$ means $\{\varepsilon, a, b, aa, bb, ab, ba, \dots \}$, so $(bb \mid b)^{*} = \{\varepsilon, b, bb, bbb, \dots \} = b^{*}$. That leads to
$$R = (a \mid b) (bb \mid b)^{*} = (a \mid b) b^{*}$$
So the language created by $R$ is $L(R) = \{ a^lb^k \mid k \in \mathbb{N}_0, 0 \leq l \leq 1\}$.
Converting your NFA to an equivalent DFA we get
Now we can see that $M$ accepts all words of the type $xy$ where $x$ can either be $a$ or $b$ (but not nothing), and $y = b^{*}$ (including $y = \varepsilon$). That means $L(R) = L(M)$.
Finally, let's take a look at $G$:
\begin{align*} S &\rightarrow aAB \mid bAb \\ A &\rightarrow bbA \mid b \mid \varepsilon \\ B &\rightarrow bB \mid bAB \mid \varepsilon \end{align*}
Case 1: $S \rightarrow aAB$: We can derive the $A$-part with either nothing, one $b$ or as much $b$'s as we like. We can derive the $B$-part with either nothing, as many $b$'s as we like or go the $A$-part.
Case 2: $S\rightarrow bAb$: In the $A$-part we can derive nothing, one $b$, or as many $b$'s as we like. This, how you pointed out, leads to the fact the the word $b$ wouldn't be accepted.
So $G$ is equivalent to:
\begin{align*} S &\rightarrow aT \mid bTb \\ T &\rightarrow bT \mid \varepsilon \end{align*}
which leads to $L(G) = \{a^l b^kb \mid k \in \mathbb{N}, 0 \leq l \leq 1\} \neq L(M) = L(R)$.