I proved that it is symmetric and also transitive. But is it a transitive?
reflexive:
$(n,m) R (n,m) \Rightarrow nm = nm$, This is True
Symmetric:
$(n,m) R (n',m') \Rightarrow (n',m') R (n,m)$
$nm' = n'm \Rightarrow n'm = m'n $, also True
BUT
In prooving transitivity is a problem with zeros.
$(n,m) R (n',m') \wedge (n',m') R (a,b) \Rightarrow (a,b)R(n,m)$
$nm' = n'm \wedge n'b = m'a \Rightarrow nb = ma$
$n = \frac{mn'}{m'}$, $b = \frac{m'a}{n'}$
Now I'm going to substitute $n,b$, so
$\frac{mn'}{m'}\frac{m'a}{n'}=ma \Rightarrow ma = ma$, what is true.
But in the process, I can have problems with zeros in fractions. And I don't know what to do with them.