Let $D\in \mathbb{Z}$ where $D$ is not a perfect square. Prove that if $\alpha\in \mathbb{Z}[\sqrt{D}]$, and $\alpha= a+b\sqrt{D}$ with: $|a^2-Db^2| = p$, a rational prime, then $\alpha$ is irreducible in $\mathbb{Z}[\sqrt{D}]$. Is the converse true?
So, for the if statement I figure I should assume $\alpha$ isn't irreducible, say $\alpha=\beta\gamma$ where they are not units, then $N(\beta)N(\gamma)=p$, but then I feel it is incorrect to assume a norm exists, because this would make it a Euclidean domain? is that the purpose of the absolute value?
Given a number field $K$, the field norm $\mathsf{N}_{K/\mathbb{Q}}$ is defined regardless of whether the ring of integers $\mathcal{O}_K$ is a Euclidean domain. You can prove that an element $\alpha\in\mathcal{O}_K$ is a unit iff $\mathsf{N}_{K/\mathbb{Q}}(\alpha)=\pm1$.
Let $K=\mathbb{Q}(\sqrt{-5})$, so $\mathcal{O}_K=\mathbb{Z}[\sqrt{-5}]$. The element $2$ is irreducible in $\mathcal{O}_K$, but $$\mathsf{N}_{K/\mathbb{Q}}(2)=2^2-(-5)0^2=4$$ is not a prime. You can see that $2$ is irreducible because, supposing for the sake of contradiction that $2=\beta\gamma$ for two non-units, we have $$4=\mathsf{N}_{K/\mathbb{Q}}(2)=\mathsf{N}_{K/\mathbb{Q}}(\beta)\cdot \mathsf{N}_{K/\mathbb{Q}}(\gamma)=\pm2\cdot\pm 2$$ but there are no elements of $\mathcal{O}_K$ that are of norm $2$ or $-2$ because $$\mathsf{N}_{K/\mathbb{Q}}(a+b\sqrt{-5})=a^2-(-5)b^2=a^2+5b^2$$ always positive, it is $\geq 5$ if $b\neq 0$, and can only be a square number if $b=0$.