Consider 2 urns (or bags), $U_1$ and $U_2$ with $n_1$ and $n_2$ balls. The balls can have $k$ different colors and we know the initial distribution of balls in both urns. Thus, we can calculate $$P_1 = 1 - \sum_{i=1}^k p_{1i}^2,$$ $$P_2 = 1 - \sum_{i=1}^k p_{2i}^2,$$ and $$P_3 = 1 - \sum_{i=1}^k p_{1i} p_{2i}$$ (with $p_{1i}$ and $p_{2i}$ as relative frequencies of balls with color $i$ in $U_1$ and $U_2$). $P_1$ and $P_2$ represent the probability for drawing randomly 2 different-colored balls from $U_1$ and $U_2$. $P_3$ is the probability for getting 2 different-colored balls after drawing 1 ball from each urn.
Now we randomly take a proportion of $m_{12}$ balls from $U_1$ and put it into $U_2$ and do the same (simultaneously) vice versa with $m_{21}$ balls from $U_2$.
What I'm interested in now is how $P_3$ changes after each round of random allocation.
Here are my thoughts ... We can calculate $P_1^{t_1}$ (and similar $P_2^{t_1}$),
$$P_1^{t_1} = \frac {\big( 1 - m_{12} \big)^2 P_1^{t_0} + 2 \big( 1 - m_{12} \big)m_{21}P_3^{t_0} + m_{21}^2 P_2^{t_0}}{\big( \big( 1 - m_{12} \big) + m_{21} \big)^2},$$ The superscripts $^{t_1}$ refer to the probabilities after 1 exchange of balls and thus refer to the system state that follows $^{t_0}$. It is obvious that $P_1^{t_\infty}$ and $P_2^{t_\infty}$ converges towards a common limit $x$ and that $P_3^{t_\infty}$ will converge towards $x$, too.
But which formula does the decay of $P_3$ follow? And how can $x$ be calculated?
Gallois, thanks a lot for your reply. I think it could be thought that way. And: Thanks a lot for you hint with $t_1$ and $t_0$. I edited my post.
So, how did I came up with $P_1^{t_1}$? I remove $m_{12} \times n_1$ balls from $U_1$ and thus $\big( 1 - m_{12} \big)$ balls remain in the urn. The probability for drawing 2 different balls from $U_1$ remains $P_1^{t_2}$. However, $U_1$ receives $m_{21} \times n_2$ balls from $U_2$. If I put the balls from $U_2$ into the bag with the remaining balls from $U_1$ and draw randomly 2 balls, they can be either:
Since we know the proportions for all 3 occurences as well as the probabilites of drawing different colors in all 3 scenaria, we can just calculate an expected values for $P_1^{t_1}$ by applying a formula for weighted averages (at least that's what I've thought).
That's the whole idea behind my question: I want to calculate the changes in $P_1$ and $P_2$ for given $m_{12}$ and $m_{21}$ without knowing the values of $p_{1i}$ and $p_{2i}$. And it seems to be only possible to calculate that changes with the introduction of $P_3$.
BTW - I just see that I also assumed $n_1 = n_2$ in the formula (see question) of my original post, so that I haven't added the population sizes to it.