I have the next problem:
In the next image, MN // AB, PN = NC, QM = 8, BM = 6 and MC = 9. Calculate PM.

First I tried to find similarities in the triangles formed by the parallel sides, ABC and MNC.
So if NC = 9k, AN = 6K then AP = 3K. Then I tried to play with the angles, maybe angle ABC = 90 so there is a 6-8-10 triangle or angle PMC = 90 so MN = PN = NC but was unable to find anything else.
Thanks in advance.
I got what you mean. Note that there is no need to any extra assumption. The solution is as following:
Lets call
$$x=NC$$
$$\frac{AN}{NC}=\frac{6}{9}$$
so $$AN=\frac{2}{3}x$$
and $$PA=\frac{1}{3}x$$
There is another similarity between triangles PQA and PMN
Therefore:
$$\frac{PQ}{QM}=\frac{\frac{1}{3}x}{\frac{2}{3}x}$$
$$\frac{PQ}{8}=\frac{\frac{1}{3}x}{\frac{2}{3}x}$$
$$PQ=4$$