I'm making the statement that the ratio of vertices to edges in an infinite square grid is $1:2$. I need this fact for deducing further theorems specific for my problem, however I can't find any theory on infinite grids.
I would prefer to cite some literature on that (maybe also for hexagonal and triangular grids).
If no formal literature exists that covers that issue I would want to write the proof. My thinking so far is each vertex has $4$ edges connected to it and each edge $2$ vertexes, which makes for a $2$ to $4$ ratio $-> 1:2$. However I feel this is not formal enough and the proof should involve infinity of the grid.
Please post possible literature or a formal proof if you think mine isn't sufficient.

If we're being "careful with $\infty$", then let's consider an $n \times n$ square grid (with $n^2$ vertices). In this grid, there are $(n-2)^2$ interior vertices, which have $4$ edges out of them; $4(n-2)$ edge vertices, which have $3$ edges out of them; $4$ corner vertices, which have $2$ edges out of them.
By the degree sum formula, adding these numbers gives twice the number of edges (because each edge is counted twice, once by each of its endpoints). If we call the number of edges $m$, then $$ 2m = 4(n-2)^2 + 3(4n-8) + 2(4) = 4n^2-4n $$ so there are $2n^2-2n$ edges. The ratio $\frac mn$ of edges over vertices is $\frac{2n^2-2n}{n^2} = 2 - \frac 2n$, which approaches $2$ as $n \to \infty$.
We can be fully rigorous and still do less work with asymptotic analysis. If we were to claim that each vertex has degree $4$, and therefore that $2m = 4n^2$, we would be wrong only for edges around the border. But there are $O(n)$ edges along each border, whose degree differs from $4$ by a constant, so we have $2m = 4n^2 + O(n)$, and therefore $\frac mn = \frac{2n^2 + O(n)}{n^2} = 2 + O(\frac1n)$. Once again, as $n \to \infty$, this approaches $0$.
Also, we can consider a finite toroidal square grid, which "wraps around" at the borders, Pac-Man style. Then every single vertex has degree $4$, and the ratio of vertices to edges is $1:2$ with no approximation.