I am trying to understand a proof regarding some properties of flat modules. The place I am stuck at, essentially boils down to this situation:
Let $M'\overset{\varphi}{\rightarrow}M\overset{\psi}{\rightarrow} M''$ denote an exact sequence of $R$-modules and let $N$ denote an $R$-module. Also, assume that the diagram

has exact rows. Now the claim is, that the sequence $M'\otimes N\overset{\varphi\otimes\operatorname{id}}{\rightarrow}M\otimes_R N\overset{\psi\otimes\operatorname{id}}{\rightarrow} M''\otimes_R N$ is exact.
I tried it in the following way. Since the first row is exact we have that $\operatorname{im}(\varphi\otimes\operatorname{id})=\operatorname{im}\varphi\otimes N$. But $\operatorname{im}\varphi\otimes N=\operatorname{ker}\psi\otimes N$ and since the second row is exact the first non-zero map is an embedding and it holds $\operatorname{ker}\psi\otimes N=\operatorname{ker}(\psi\otimes \operatorname{id})$ which is the claim.
But I have the feeling, that I am missing something. If the above approach was correct, then the third row in the diagram would be obsolete, which makes me skeptical.
You need the third row in order to know that $\ker (\psi \otimes \mathrm{id}) \subset \ker \psi \otimes N$. The second row allows you to conclude that $\ker \psi \otimes N \subset \ker (\psi \otimes \mathrm{id})$ since $\ker \psi \otimes N$ maps to $0$ in $\operatorname{im} \psi \otimes N$, and you have a homomorphism from $\operatorname{im} \psi \otimes N$ to $M'' \otimes N$, but if the map $\operatorname{im} \psi \otimes N \to M'' \otimes N$ had a nontrivial kernel, then $\ker(\psi \otimes \mathrm{id}_N)$ could be larger than $\ker \psi \otimes N$.
Explicitly, call the map in the second row $\rho_1 : M \otimes_R N \to \operatorname{im} \psi \otimes N$, and the map in the third row $\rho_2 : \operatorname{im} \psi \otimes N \to M'' \otimes N$. Then $\psi \otimes \mathrm{id}_N = \rho_2 \circ \rho_1$, so $$\begin{align*} \ker(\psi \otimes \mathrm{id}_N) & = \rho_1^{-1}(\ker \rho_2) \\ & = \rho_1^{-1}(0) && \text{since the last row is exact} \\ & = \ker(\rho_1) \\ & = \ker \psi \otimes N && \text{since the second row is exact.} \end{align*}$$