This probably would be a very simple problem if I could use any theorem I wanted about poles and polars, but in the book they give a definition and they say the problem should be solved using only that: "Let C be a circumference and w a chord, the pole P of w is the intersection of the tangents through the points of intersection of w with C."
Thanks for any help.
Let us draw the picture first, fix notations and make a more precise claim:
Proof: The inversion maps circles through $O$ in lines. If $OX$ is the diameter of such a circle, the transformed map of the circle is a line perpendicular in $X^*$ on $OX^*$.
Comment: In our case, the perpediculars in $A_1,A_2$ on $OA_1$, respectively $OA_2$, meet in a point $A$, say for a short time, so that $OA_1^2=OA_2^2=OM\cdot OA$. So $A$ is exactly the pole $M^*$.
$\square$