A drunkard is trying to reach his home, at the top of a steep hill. He is currently three steps from the door.
Each time he attempts to take a step uphill, he has a $\frac 16$ probability of sliding $N$ steps back down instead. Initially, $N=1$.
But each time the drunkard slides backward, $N$ increases by $1$.
What is the probability that the drunkard gets home?
This is more of a comment than an answer - but it's long and doesn't fit as a comment. It does respond to your comment "The only way I can think of to approach this is ...".
Generally if k backward slides occur the number of attempts to get home is 3 + k + (k*(k+1)/2).
The backwards slides can't occur in just any spot in your safe journey. For instance if there's 1 backwards slide total, it can't occur in attempt 4 or 5. Two ways of thinking of that - a) if it occured in attempt 4, you must have been at least one step away anyway, so the backward slide in 4 would place you 2 steps away and attempt 5 couldn't get you home; b) if it occurred in 4 or 5 that means attempts 1, 2, and 3 were all forward so you would be home already after attempt 3.
The number of possible different attempt paths that get you home after k backslide attempts would be overestimated by using (3 + k + (k*(k+1)/2)) choose k. The top represents the total number of attempts while the bottom represents the backslides during those attempts. What you need to do is remove the overcounting as some of those attempt paths would have resulted in arriving at home already.
The way to remove them is to subtract the following for each lower number k of backslides:
the number of valid attempt routes for i backslides * the number of possible choices in the remaining attempts for k-i choices.
f(0) = 1 (attempts 1,2,3 are all positive)
f(1) = (5 choose 1) - f(0) * ((5-3) choose 0) = 3
f(2) = (8 choose 2) - f(0) * ((8-3) choose 2) - f(1) * ((8-5) choose 1) = 9
Continuing in this manner I arrived at
f(3) = 37, f(4)=173, f(5)=1402, f(6)=14096.
I got the following probabilities for arriving home after exactly k backslides
0 - 0.5787037037
1 - 0.2411265432
2 - 0.08372449417
3 - 0.03319836982
4 - 0.01247627397
5 - 0.006772193099
6 - 0.003800480282
0 - 0.5787037037
1 - 0.8198302469
2 - 0.9035547411
3 - 0.9367531109
4 - 0.9492293849
5 - 0.956001578
6 - 0.9598020583