I have been looking for a concrete answer on this matter since leaving secondary school and thought now to ask online since YouTube and Wikipedia seem too convoluted.
I remember watching this video on the proof behind the nCr factorials and I understood the logical proof clearly.
However, I remember when asked
Expand $(x+y)^3$
I would, automatically, draw out the following line:
${3 \choose 0}x^0y^3 + {3 \choose 1}x^1y^2 + {3 \choose 2}x^2y^1 + {3 \choose 3}x^3y^0$
and then use my calculator to get
$y^3 + 3x^1y^2 + 3x^2y^1 + x^3$
and further to my disappointment, my teacher would speak about Pascal's triangle and say that the coefficients (the numbers infront of my $x$ and $y$ terms) came from this so-called triangle. There was no explanation given for the purpose of factorials or where this Pascal's triangle came from.
After looking at the video above and looking at the Pascal's triangle, I'm just confused as to why I would need ${n \choose r}$ for expanding the equation above.
What is the link between using this factorials formula:
$$\frac{n!}{r!(n-r)!}$$
and applying it to expanding algebraic expressions as above?
I understand if it seems trivial to most people here, but after my first year as a chemistry student, I'm still interested in knowing the link between the two!
EDIT - I should add I understand the video where he describes how many words can be made but I can't apply this understanding for an algebraic perspective
Expanding on Don Thousand's comment, as well as the video's way of explaining it, you can think of each term in the expansion of $(x+y)^n$ as a word using $x$ and $y$. For example, $$(x+y)^3=xxx+xxy+xyx+xyy+yxx+yxy+yyx+yyy.$$ Algebraically, many of these terms are the same, of course, e.g. $xxy=xyx$. In fact, for each such word, the only thing that matters is the number of $x$s (or, conversely, the number of $y$s). So asking, "What is the coefficient of $xy^2$ in the expansion of $(x+y)^3$?" is the same as asking, "How many words of length $3$ can be made using $x$s and $y$s such that there is exactly one $x$?" And both of these questions are equivalent to asking, "How many size $1$ subsets are there of a size $3$ set?" All of these are answered with $3\choose 1$, or, in general, $n\choose k$.